I AM a 13-year-old student. Recently, two guys from my school, Y and S, asked me to be their girlfriend. Y is two years older than I am and while S is my age.
Y has loved me for five years and knows everything about me. But he hardly talks to me but always asks his friends to tell me how much he loves me. He calls me but doesn’t talk to me. Y knows that I don’t like him but he still won’t give up.
S asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. That is because he is an orphan and he needs someone to care for him. Maybe I can be the one. Honestly, I was not serious when I agreed to be with S and I thought that he would soon break up with me. But I was wrong. He really loves me. I’m getting really worried now. Y and S are both madly in love with me.
I can’t discuss this matter with my mother or father because our relationship is really cold. They don’t understand my feelings. I have no one else to discuss this with and I am afraid to love someone at this young age because it will affect my studies. Should I be honest with S, and explain my condition to Y and ask him to stay away from me?
I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I really need your advice.
Queen of Hearts, Cheras
Like, does she know what love is?
That is because he is an orphan and he needs someone to care for him. Maybe I can be the one.
I am afraid to love someone at this young age because it will affect my studies.
If you knew it would affect your studies,
*mafia boss*why'd ya doowit?!*end mafia boss*
Y has loved me for five years...But he hardly talks to me but always asks his friends to tell me how much he loves me.
Y is a damn chicken.
I think he just wants to get laid but too afraid to ask. ;)
Y and S are both madly in love with me.
Yes, I'm sure they are, honey.
He calls me but doesn’t talk to me.
How does he not talk to you if he calls you?
Does your non existing conversation go like this?
"Do you miss me?"
"How's your day?"
"Wanna go out some time?"
"I love you..."
They don’t understand my feelings.
I understand something you don't.
*chinese a-pek* Lu low, wat lup it? *end chinese a-pek*
I wonder if anybody writes to BigBro just to "whine" about how they should pick a BF/GF among a few hundred admirers. *note the sarcasm*